When first approaching Relationship Therapy or therapy of any type, it's important to gather as much information as possible.
Researching, exploring and feeling comfortable with your decision is vitally important. It is also reassuring if you can see and hear your therapist before coming into an appointment. You can do both of these things here on the Hills Couples Counselling site.
Developing a sense of trust and rapport with your therapist may be essential for full and comfortable disclosure.
On this page the Hills Couples Counselling Clinic has endeavoured to answer some of the more popular and often heard questions we receive in relation to Relationship Therapy.
Unfortunately, due to our clinic being very busy and employing popular in demand practitioners, we do not have the ability to provide 'free' introductory chats prior to your appointment. While we are more than happy to answer general questions and enquiries, we cannot provide mini sessions outside of your paid consultations.
If you have any questions or concerns which have not been addressed below, please feel free to email us Here
There are many reasons why a relationship may falter.
Undertaking Therapy can benefit you as an individual and strengthen your resolve to have the type of relationship you have only previously dreamed about.
Benefits of Individual Therapy Include: Less Anxiety Greater Self Confidence An ever-evolving and enhanced relationship/s Ability to regain emotional balance Increased positive assertiveness Stress Relief Ability to set healthy boundaries Trauma Resolution Strategies Rebuilding or reclaiming self esteem Gaining clarity and focus Understanding your own personal and relationship needs
Benefits of Couples Therapy Include: Improved Communication Conflict Management Improved Intimacy Reigniting Passion Increased awareness of needs Shared meaning Empathy for and of one another
There is no real definitive answer to this question.
For some couples, Relationship Therapy provides a pathway to enhance, repair and rebuild their relationship into an even better model than the one previously experienced.
For other couples, the process of therapy provides guidance and insight into why it may, in fact, be a healthy decision overall to end the relationship, if both parties deem the union as being irreparable.
The good news is that with HCC's exacting profiling systems, we are able to very precisely pin down the areas within a relationship where disharmony and unrest may be brewing.
Our wide range of therapies, including the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Prepare-Enrich Stronger Relationships, Love Languages, and ACT, combined with many years of highly qualified experience will offer amazing insight into the dynamics of your unique relationship.
Profiling involves comprehensive assessment, which will show areas of strength (what you are both really great at) and what needs to be strengthened (what you may not be so great at).
Provided you are both willing to be transparent and open to change there's a very real chance you will rediscover all of the wonderful qualities you each possess.
Please Note While we love seeing couples repair and enhance their relationships there are cases where no amount of therapy or tools will reconnect a couple. This is often the case where one person has already moved on with another partner into a new relationship or where a person has already emotionally checked out long before physically checking out.
We do not guarnatee that we can 'fix' your relationship.
Sessions All sessions excluding our programs are 60 minutes in duration, unless stated otherwise. Initial Consultations with Vicki Childs are 90 minutes and Love Doctor Couple to Couple Sessions are also 90 minutes in duration.
The process of how long the entire therapy method will take depends on the couple and how much work needs to be done to bring you to your end goal in terms of the agreed Therapy model.
This may take as little as 3-6 sessions, or it may take a full 12 weeks. The frequency of therapy sessions will be discussed and agreed upon after your first session.
Akin to visiting a GP with a broken bone, there is a process that we follow, similar to that of sending you off for an X-Ray and subsequent visit to a Surgeon.
An agreed Therapy model and the likely number of sessions are normally discussed at or after your initial session.
What if my partner refuses to participate?
Many times the impetus for Relationship Therapy is initiated by the person who may be struggling the most. At other times, we receive calls from a desperate individual who has been threatened to attend Couples Counselling or face dire ramifications.
A partner who is forced to attend Relationship Therapy will no doubt present with a certain amount of resentment and on occasion outright hostility. For any type of therapy to be effective, both parties need to be committed to the process.
Change in any type of relationship comes from choice, change generally doesn't happen simply by chance.
If you're faced with a situation where a partner refuses to attend with you, you are much better off to simply attend on your own.
The skills and techniques we offer can be effectively employed in the relationship and we have found that after a resistant partner witnesses the positive beneficial changes therapy makes, they often agree to attend too.
Disclaimer - Should the safety of a child be in question or there be an issue of self-harm or disclosed domestic violence we are legally and morally obliged to seek outside assistance.
Similarly, if your records are subpoenaed by a court of law we are legally required to supply our case notes.
Are children involved in the Therapy Process?
The short answer is no. Children are not involved in the physical sessions. However, as children often form part of a relationship, it is understood that they may be openly discussed during therapy.
Individual sessions for children can be organised at your request.
Please note due to the intimate nature of Couples Counselling we cannot accommodate babies or children to be present in Therapy Sessions.
Couples Counselling requires your full and undivided attention. Please organise a babysitter to ensure your child is safe while you attend your sessions.
Fees and Structure. General Info.
As part of theHills Couples Counselling philosophy, we are open and transparent with our Fee Structuring.
Love Doctors Couple to Couple - Dual Therapist Session Initial Consultation. Working with Relationship Experts, Vicki and James Childs. 90 Minutes $480 per session.
Love Doctors Couple to Couple - Dual Therapist Session Subsequent/Second and follow up visits are 90 minutes in duration. $480 per session. Working Couple to Couple with Relationship Experts, Vicki and James Childs.
Couples Counselling Initial Consultation with James Childs. 60 minutes. Working exclusively with Relationship Specialist, James Childs. $200 per session.
Couples Subsequent/Second/Follow Up Visits with James Childs. Subsequent/Second and follow up visits are 60 minutes in duration. $200 per session.
Couples Counselling Initial Consultation with Vicki Childs. 90 minutes. Working exclusively with Relationship Expert, Vicki Childs. $280 per session.
Couples Subsequent/Second/Follow Up Visits. Vicki Childs. 60 minutes. $250 per session.
IndividualRelationship Therapy with James Childs Initial Consultation. 60 minutes. $150 per session.
Individual Subsequent/Second/Follow Up Visits with James Childs. Subsequent/Second and follow up visits are 60 minutes in duration. $150 per session.
Individual Relationship Therapy with Vicki Childs Initial Consultation. 60 minutes. $170 per session.
Individual Subsequent/Second/Follow Up Visits with Vicki Childs Subsequent/Second and follow up visits are 60 minutes in duration. $170 per session.
Prepare Enrich Profiling & Counselling Package. Includes comprehensive profiling for each individual (partner), 90 minute counselling and debriefing session and either a hardcopy 20 page workbook or PDF. $320 per session.
Prepare Enrich Profiling & Counselling Package. Love Doctors Couple to Couple Counselling. Includes comprehensive profiling for each individual. 90 minute counselling and debriefing session and either hardcopy 20 page workbook or PDF. $600 per session. Working with Sydney's leading Couple to Couple Love Doctors, Vicki and James Childs.
Family Therapy. 2 Adults and up to 4 children. Initial and subsequent consultations. 90 minutes. $350 per session. Service provided by Vicki Childs, Clinical Supervisor.
'RECALIBRATE' 4 Week Personal Coaching with Vicki Childs. Full 4 week personal coaching program with Vicki Childs $1000.
The HCC has EFTPOS facilities available. We take all major credit cards including American Express, GPay and Apple Pay.
Report Writing, Document Preparation and Court Appearance Fees. Written reports or preparation of any Government Agency Documents, along with Court Appearances on behalf of our clients will be charged at our hourly rate of $180 per hour.
After Session Communication. Emails & Telephone Calls. While we take every measure to ensure you have received all support materials during your session, please note that we are unable to provide session 'debriefing' Counselling Services via phone or email outside of your nominated session times. If you require urgent assistance please contact one of the following 24/7 Support Lines:
Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline 1300 78 99 78 Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659467 Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800 qlife 3pm-midnight 1800 184 527 Sexual assault, family and domestic violence Line 1800 424 017
Alternatively, you can call The New South Wales Mental Health Access Line who will put you in touch with your local mental health service. Call 1800 011 511.
Refusal of Services We reserve the right to refuse service to any person deemed to be aggressive, threatening or under the influence of drugs and alcohol which may impede our ability to carry out therapy.
Additionally, we reserve the right to refuse service to any person presenting as unwell, with a temperature or visible signs of flu, cough and cold or virus. Please keep everyone safe by rescheduling your appointment.
Immediate Termination of Session We reserve the right to immediately terminate a counselling session if there is any threat of abuse. Should you choose to leave the session violently or repeatedly we will immediately terminate the remainder of the session and you will forfeit your session payment. We do not guarantee 'reconnection' with your partner and cannot make a person reconcile with you or stay with you if they have clearly stated otherwise.
Any person regardless of gender showing hostility or verbal abuse towards our Therapists will be asked to leave the session immediately. Cancellation and Non Attendance Policy We require a minimum of 24 hours notice for cancellation of appointments.
Failure to provide notice or 'no shows' will result in rentention of the full service fee as session time has already been allocated from our calendars and client caseloads.
A $25 administration fee is charged for processing of refunds. Your refund is normally in your account in no more than 3 days.
All appointments after 5 pm and on weekends must be pre-paid in advance to secure your nominated time as these time allocations are normally very popular and in demand.
All Saturday appointments are non-refundable as Saturday's are our most requested appointment time with long wait lists to secure these appointments.
If you have already undertaken your Initial Consultation and happy to proceed with therapy, you can book your suggested package easily and quickly by clicking any of the buttons below. Alternatively please visit the Programs/Packages Page
Packages can be delivered weekly, fortnightly or monthly. All packages require pre payment.
Unfortunately Registered Counsellors are not able to provide Medicare rebates for Couples Counselling, in fact, Couples Counselling is not an item which is covered under the MBS.
However, if you have private health cover with extras, there are a small number of Funds who do issue rebates.
Our industry associations are lobbying hard for Registered and Qualified Counsellors to be included in the Medicare MBS Item Number Schedule.
We hope this will come to fruition soon.
Medical Funds Issuing Rebates for Counsellings Sessions are:
Medibank Private AHM Police Health Fund Doctors Health Fund Avant Mutual Health Grand United Health Phoenix Health Fund St Lukes Health Emergency Services Health
Vicki Childs Counselling Provider Numbers:
Medibank Private A072934A AHM #21221121 or #21219534 Police Health, Emergency Services Health, St Lukes Health, Phoenix Health #AC03749T. Doctors Health Fund #3749.
All other Funds (as listed only) ACA registration is #3749.
James Childs Counselling Provider Numbers:
ACA Registration #17843.
Receipts are issued electronically and contain our provider numbers.
Please check with your Health Fund to clarify if you are eligible for a rebate. Our provider numbers will be issued on all invoices and receipts.
Receipts are issued electronically, after your visit. Please note each fund has its own codes and provider number requirements.
Tips for a PROFESSIONAL ONLINE Experience
Ensure you are in a well-lit room. Ensure you are in a comfortable space of your choosing. Have your laptop at the right height to show your face and head. If using a phone try using a phone stand for stability. If possible for couples counselling be in separate rooms on separate devices and use earbuds or headphones for complete privacy. Ensure you have plenty of charge on your devices. Ensure your screen and camera are clean. Have water available to remain hydrated. Check your environment and that you are emotionally ready for therapy.